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  HCI Books, the Life Issues Publisher

  Deerfield Beach, Florida

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  Contents

  Introduction

  Making Spirits Bright: Spreading Good Will and Good Cheer

  The Lineup Nancy Bechtolt

  It’s a Wrap Peggy Frezon

  Finding Santa Claus Elisa Korentayer

  A Song for Santa Linda O’Connell

  Christmas in July Todd Outcalt

  Up Front Terri Elders

  Owed to Joy Ted Thompson

  Of Evergreens and Fake Firs: The Trees We’ve Known and Loved

  All in a Row Anne Culbreath Watkins

  Tinsel Time Joanne Hirase-Stacey

  Visions of Tree Trimming Dance in Our Heads Marybeth Hicks

  Silent Night Carla Zwahlen

  The Too-Tall Tree Peggy Frezon

  Out on a Limb Andrea Langworthy

  Christmas Outside the Box: Offbeat and Untraditional Celebrations

  Oy, Come All Ye Faithful Dorri Olds

  Goodwill to Men Sonja Herbert

  Christmas in Germany: The Naked Truth Lori Hein

  Christmas Blues Kathe Campbell

  The Tree That Ryma Built Ryma Shohami

  Glad Tidings of Great Joy: Heartfelt and Holy Moments

  Drawing Names Nancy Edwards Johnson

  Unto You a Child Is Born Helen Colella

  The Red Bike J. Vincent Dugas

  Drawn to the Warmth Carol McAdoo Rehme

  Yuletide in the Tropics Connie Alexander Huddleston

  Bah, Humbug! When Christmas Seems More Blue Than White

  The Butterfly Tree Jeanne Hill

  The Ghosts of Christmas Past Joseph Hesch

  Radio Flyer Todd Outcalt

  Christmas on the Street Pat Mendoza

  Holidaze Diane Perrone

  Wonderful Life Caroline Grant

  Talking Turkey: Holiday Food and Other Fiascos

  Eating at Two Robert W. Howe

  The Right Ingredients Robyn Kurth Golumpki (Pigs in a Blanket) Recipe

  Meatball Madness Candace Simar

  The Proof Is in the Pudding Donna Rushneck Mom’s Chocolate Bread Pudding Recipe

  The Pied Pepper Jaye Lewis

  Yuletide Traditions: Cherished Customs and Memories

  Log Cabin Christmas John Winsor

  Tea for You Jean Richert as told to Carol McAdoo Rehme

  Holiday Blockbuster Debbi Wise

  What a Card Andrea Langworthy

  Cumbered Christmas Wanda Quist

  The Best Time of the Year Christopher Garry

  Recipes

  Mint-Infused Leg of Lamb

  Gingered Brussels Sprouts Hash with Golden Raisins

  Spicy Blackened Shrimp with Cranberry-Orange Salsa

  Mixed Greens Salad

  Goat Cheese and Pistachio Nut Crostini

  Tabbouleh with Mint and Cranberries

  Christmas Cran-Apple Martini

  Roast Turkey with Cranberry Orange Glaze

  A Simple But Sinful Stuffing

  Santa’s Spicy Molasses Cookies

  Chocolate Fudge

  North Pole Peppermint Pie

  Pumpkin Cupcakes with Cream Cheese Frosting and Caramel Drizzle

  The Writers

  About the Author

  Copyright Credits

  Introduction

  I’ve seen Christmas from all angles: As a child growing up in Wisconsin, I counted the days until we could wake up on a likely snow-filled Christmas morning and enjoy our special family breakfast before bursting into the living room to look at the beautifully decorated tree and the presents beneath it. As a wife and mom of two, I won—and lost—my share of “too-tall-tree debates” with my husband. Then as a widowed mom, with no money for rent, let alone presents, I had to find creative ways to make the holidays memorable.

  Over the years, I’ve learned that if you mix a little practicality with some creativity and a little Yuletide spirit, you can create a magical holiday season—and the joyful memories and traditions that go with it.

  Throughout this book, you’ll read true stories from others about sweet and tender holiday moments, holiday menus gone awry or the turkey that got away, stories of the Christmas blues made brighter by an act of kindness, or the moment someone was reminded of the true meaning of the season.

  It is my hope that you and your family have a magical holiday—and carry the Christmas spirit with you all the year through.

  Making Spirits Bright:

  Spreading Good Will and Good Cheer

  The Lineup

  By Nancy Bechtolt

  Christmas Eve day. One-half shopping day left and this was it. Husband Dick and I, son Rick, and his family descended on the city mall with a mixture of excitement and panic, precipitated by the knowledge that visions of sugarplums were due to start dancing in a matter of hours.

  Expeditiously finishing my shopping first, I found an empty chair bordering the main walkway through the mall and settled down for an innocent orgy of people watching. One familiar motto caught my eye on a passing sweatshirt: Practice senseless beauty and random acts of kindness. I wondered if the wearer or in fact anyone in the mall that day had time for such luxuries. Sounded unlikely.

  My attention soon drifted across the procession of shoppers straight into the living room of a Nordic cottage where Santa Claus and an ­itinerant ­lapful of radiant believers sat enthroned in an ample maple rocking chair. Behind him a painted fire roared silently in its huge fireplace. Beside him stood a real Christmas tree trimmed with ropes of fake cranberries and popcorn and genuine candy canes.

  I was close enough to notice a sheen of perspiration form along the line of Santa’s white beard and to hear all of his Christmas questions and most of their answers. A long queue of eager lap replacements and resigned parents wound down the mallway. The line was at least an hour long. That was going to challenge a few Christmas spirits.

  Two adjacent families about halfway through the line caught my eye. The first was a mother and a group of little boys about two, four, and five years old. The smallest was corralled in a stroller. That was the good news. The other two were free agents, poking, scuffling, and pushing in the red-blooded way little boys have that amuses onlookers and drives mothers to consider substance abuse.

  The children were neatly but modestly dressed in matching red sweatshirts that seemed to have suffered a few indignities from prior owners. But their faces were shiny, their eyes as blue as they were mischievous, and their hair fine, blond, and unruly. Directly behind them stood another family—mother, father, and little girls about five and seven. The girls wore blue velvet dresses, trimmed in lace at the hem and featuring a line of white organdy rosebud buttons. Their long white stockings and black patent Mary Janes had never seen Christmas before. Their long black hair, caught in flowing ponytails, reached almost to their waists. When they squirmed, their parents took turns walking with them to relieve the tedium of the wait.

  The line inched forward until the little boys were next. But something was wrong. The boys didn’t dash for Santa’s lap. Instead, the mother and Santa’s linebacker, who guarded access to Santa and a cash register with equal fervor, were in animated conversation.

  The mother couldn’t believe she had to pay for a set of pictures just so her children could ta
lk to Santa. Wasn’t Santa for all children at Christmas? Wasn’t every child equal in his sight—even those who didn’t have $11.94 for the smallest set of photos? Couldn’t they just sit in his lap for a minute, even if she promised not to take a picture with the camera she had brought along?

  No, no, no, the linebacker snarled. This was a photo shop in the express business of selling photos. They were not about to overwork Santa for freeloaders. It was too bad she had waited an hour, but the linebacker could take no responsibility for that.

  As their voices rose, I realized I was not the only eavesdropper. The father of the blue velvet daughters returned from one of his mini-strolls and, realizing the nature of the controversy, reached into his pocket. He deposited twelve dollars on the cash register.

  “This is from one of Santa’s plainclothesmen,” he grinned. “Now let’s get those boys on Santa’s lap where they belong.”

  The mother relaxed. The little boys leaped. Across the aisle, I smiled as tears of pride collected in my eyes.

  Santa’s plainclothesman was my son.

  It’s a Wrap

  By Peggy Frezon

  Mike and I were busy gift-givers—shopping, wrapping, and hiding gifts under the tree. Three-year-old Andy sat and watched as we pulled out colorful paper and carefully tied ribbons and bows. When he begged to help, I handed him the tape dispenser.

  He pulled out a sticky length as long as his little arm could stretch. He ripped it off, the tape curling around itself, and secured the paper with the tangled mess. His gifts were covered with more tape than paper.

  He sat and watched, too, as we wheeled carts through stores, meticulously selecting a sweater for Uncle Randy and a coloring set for Cousin Crystal.

  “What’s that?” He pointed at the items I placed in the cart.

  “These pretty dishes are for Gramma. And this book is for Kate.”

  “Me, too,” he said.

  “No, these are presents we’ll give away.”

  “Me, too,” he insisted again. I shrugged and tried to distract him.

  On Christmas morning, we all gathered around the tree, ripping paper from packages and exclaiming over new clothes, CDs, and toys. Of course, Andy squealed with delight. He pushed buttons to set off the siren on his new fire truck and gleefully dumped the pieces of his plastic building set all over the floor. Still, several times I noticed him glance anxiously toward the tree.

  Finally, he reached beneath the boughs and withdrew a handful of gifts.

  “Here Mommy,” he said, plopping down in my lap and handing me a present. I recognized the zealously taped wrapping.

  “What could this be?” I asked. Mike hadn’t mentioned taking him to the store to select anything. I pulled off the holly-green paper and unwrapped a fork. Just like one of the forks in our kitchen drawer. In fact, it was one of the forks from our kitchen drawer. I looked at Andy’s little face, glowing with expectancy and pride.

  “Why, thank you, Andy. It’s just what I wanted!” I laughed and gave him a huge hug. He beamed. He jumped from my lap and handed out the rest of his presents.

  Mike worked at his well-taped gift to discover the garage key dangling from its glowing orange chain. “I was wondering where this went,” he whispered to me, and then, to Andy, “It’s perfect!”

  His sister Kate stripped away tape and paper and found a small, well-used blue pony with a rainbow-colored tail. “Thank you, Andy,” she played along and gave her brother a big hug.

  There were other surprises, too: a deck of cards, a pen, a tape measurer. Andy looked like he’d just given us all a million dollars. And, funny thing was, we all felt like that’s what we received.

  I don’t know when he did it or how he managed to do it in secret. All I know is Andy wanted to be part of Christmas. And he certainly was. He showed us that the spirit of giving really is all wrapped up in the heart—and sometimes with a whole lot of tape.

  Finding Santa Claus

  By Elisa Korentayer

  My experience with Christmas was minimal and not exactly positive.

  When I was five years old I learned that, unlike my friends, I was not to expect Santa at my house bearing gifts. To console me, my Jewish mother explained that the big jolly fellow didn’t really exist. Santa Claus was a tale spun for little children; the children’s parents put the presents under the tree.

  Armed with this information, I didn’t hesitate to denounce Santa to all the kids on my block. I jeered at their belief in the myth. I stole St. Nick from my young friends simply because they would be getting presents when I would not.

  With this childhood faux pas as my sole Christmas memory, I was terrified when my boyfriend Chris invited me to Minnesota for the holidays. I channeled my terror into an obsession with finding perfect gifts for each member of his—as yet unknown—Catholic family. I wanted to get it right.

  I scoured New York City, searching in every shop I passed. I spent hours considering what might be right for each individual and days purchasing and then returning gift options. I learned the hard way why people try to complete their shopping before Thanksgiving; I waited in line after line and navigated waves of gift-crazy shoppers in crowds that blew even my city-jaded mind.

  I tried to consult with Chris on his family’s predilections, but he was no help. He seemed genuinely ignorant of what his family might want, and he tended to err on the side of buying gift cards.

  “You don’t need to get them anything,” he demurred.

  But I knew better. I didn’t want to seem ungrateful to people who might become important in my life, especially when they were opening their home to me for Christmas.

  Only two days before our departure, I finally completed my shopping. I took inventory of the purchases and stuffed a second suitcase with the packages. I even hand-carried a bag of gourmet cookies onto the airplane.

  On Christmas Eve, I was as ready as I would ever be. I arrived with Chris to meet his family at St. Henry’s Church. They were already there, well-groomed in their Christmas finest. His parents. His sister. Her husband. Their two kids. We filed in as a group.

  I was all eyes and ears, taking in the rites of my first Christmas Mass. The choir sang carols as the congregation filled the pews. I was surprised to notice how familiar the songs were. Although I was raised Jewish, it was impossible to avoid the Christmas culture. Seasonal music wafted through stores and from radios. And every year our school choir produced a holiday program full of Christmas songs, with a few Hanukkah tunes tossed in for good measure.

  Realization struck: although I was not Catholic, I was American, and therefore Christmas was already partly mine.

  After Mass, we joined Chris’s family at his parents’ house, where we nibbled on hors d’oeuvres and got to know one another. As we sat down to dinner, I could feel the polite smile awkwardly pasted to my face when Chris’s father offered grace.

  “We give thanks to the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob for what we are about to receive.” I was so touched by his sensitivity to my Jewish background that it took me a moment before I could tackle the feast in front of me.

  We had ham and turkey and chicken and green beans. We had salads and cheesy potatoes and roast beef. We had carrots and pickles and—the pièce de résistance—cranberry pudding served with decadent sweet gravy known as “hard sauce.” It was food heaven.

  But that was only the beginning of the celebrations. Chris’s family exchanged gifts on Christmas Eve, and I was about to be initiated into their gift-giving tradition. With only my limited experience of Hanukkah and birthday gifts, I couldn’t have dreamed up this exercise in Bacchanalian indulgence.

  After dinner, we all trooped upstairs to the sitting room where a Christmas tree stood guard over a mountain of presents. I saw the presents I had bought, neatly wrapped and adorned with overpriced bows
by underpaid retail workers. To my surprise, I saw countless presents with my name on them.

  Chris’s young niece and nephew diligently divided the booty into individual piles that they placed at the feet of each adult. Soon, a heap of presents accumulated in front of me. I stared. I don’t think I’d ever gotten so many presents at one time.

  “Now, we go around the room, taking turns opening one gift at a time,” the kids explained the family ritual. They were eager to go first; then I was invited to choose my first gift and open it.

  I was paralyzed by indecision. Should I open the red polka-dot box, just the right size for jewelry? Or should I start with the three-foot cube wrapped clumsily by Chris in Santa Claus paper?

  “Open that one!” The children decided for me. I reached toward the turquoise and green box they pointed out and got to work.

  At first, I tried to open the package neatly. Then I hit the snags of Scotch tape and tore at the wrappings with kamikaze vengeance. Soon, all of us were drowning in crumpled piles of paper, bows, and partly demolished boxes. To the children’s amusement, I stuck bows and ribbons on my head.

  My smile grew wider and wider till it threatened to split my face in two. I was gleeful. I was giddy. The five-year-old inside me released her disappointment and experienced Santa Claus for herself. At the age of thirty-one, I had finally encountered the jolly old man. He did exist. I found him in the joy of gift-giving and receiving.

  It was worth the wait.

  A Song for Santa

  By Linda O’Connell

  Last year, one week before my preschool’s Christmas pageant, the dad who volunteered to play Santa had knee surgery. As the day of the holiday extravaganza drew near, I asked for a volunteer, but no one offered.

  Desperate, I cajoled my husband. “Honey, would you please wear the beard and suit for my school pageant?”

  On the day of the performance, Bill telephoned my school and I put him on speaker phone. He told the children he was leaving the North Pole en route to St. Louis and he would arrive that evening. The preschoolers cheered and sang him a song: “He’s too fat for the chimney, too fat for the chimney. Open the door and let dear Santa come in.”